The seeds of hate will start to grow from the exact moment you (not literally you) start to think you can change the person you’re with. When you idealize a perfect person in your mind and believe the one you’re with will become this perfect person. People don’t change just because we want to. Hate is not fate. People can be happy together. There’s no recipe, though.
HAHA that is a fantastic insight into how relationships REALLY are so many people go into relationships not realising the above they think its all going to be rainbows and fairies and happy days with suns that sing but no it doesnt work that way im really loving you opinion on this :) thumbs up
Thats true my friend a Relationship can be everything from love to hate . Sometimes in one day . I am in a Relationship and i love him with all my heart and so does he but sometimes we argue and scream at each other like enemies in a war. But when we both calmed down we talk about it and try to accept each others craziness. Thats an important point how we can stay together.
we told u so. sorry
relationships can be hard
God damn you're a smart guy. This is actually very helpful, more helpful than anything anyone has ever told me about relationships.
my late hubby and i were together for over 25 years. we were honest and very loving. never once did he yell at me or call me a name. peeps find that hard to believe but it's true. you half to work together and compromise to make it work. and give each other thier space. don't be controlling. that kills a relationship fast. and i know men don't like to be controlled. you are young sere but you have it figured out. that makes you a great man in my books
Everyone fights in relationships that is a part of life so is the pain and the hurt unfortunately. Its so easy to say I love u and not know the meaning of it. That's where a lot of people get confused and that's how relationships end. I hope I answered this right.
Sometimes realations ships never go farther than friends
and some may disagree with me on this one, but love at age 17-18-19-etc. is different than love at 20 or 30 or 40. It does change. Maybe it gets stronger, maybe not. But I've been in the relationship I'm in now since I was 20 years old. It changes whether you want to admit it or not. Most of the time for the better.
7/2/09... Sort of a tribute
LESSON 9-YOUR POINT? PART 3 OF "WOMEN"
SEROTONIN
LESSON 7-WOMEN
A CLOSER LOOK
LESSON 8-EQUALITY PART 2 OF "WOMEN"
Lesson 6-Love
Enemy
Lesson 5-Learn
Lesson 4- Dont trust